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You can look but you can\u2019t touch?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Exactly! And the kids absolutely love watching the animals. They carefully monitor how the fish develop. We have therefore also bought books and other materials to enable the children and young people to read about their pets. It is particularly exciting when we have new offspring in the tank. The kids go in search of the little fish. They also chat about their animals and discuss them in the group. Some of them also name their fish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So the children develop relationships with \u2018their\u2019 pets?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Yes, even if it is \u2018only\u2019 a fish, they still develop a relationship. By naming their pet, they give it a personality and characteristics. This again creates a bond and a kind of friendship with the aquarium inhabitant, who the children can then tell about their problems and concerns. They take on responsibility and regularly take care of a living being. The children really do learn a great deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Like what?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
They learn that they are looking after a living being every day and that they have to take on responsibility. This includes having to do certain jobs: the aquarium is cleaned and the filter and aquatic plants are checked in line with a schedule. The children and young people on cooking service each day are also in charge of feeding the fish. These rituals give structure to their everyday lives \u2013 slowing the pace and offering a sense of calm. What\u2019s more, the children and young people find that they are trusted to do a job. This in turn makes them feel accepted and valued.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And what happens if a fish dies?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
The children naturally find it hard if their own fish dies. The owner usually wants to take the fish out of the tank him\/herself. This is then wrapped in a paper napkin and buried in the garden in a special flower bed. If they want, the children can lay flowers for the fish or write it a farewell letter. It is like a little \u2018burial\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That sounds sad.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Yes, but it also provides an opportunity. At some point, the children and young people will have to say goodbye to someone they love. They therefore have the opportunity to experience this situation with a living creature. They learn what it is like to lose something they love. And we can support them through this as their teachers. This may help them to deal with these kinds of experiences better in the future. The children also console one another; that is also very valuable and creates trust and stability within the group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What then?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
It is not usually long before the children affected want a new pet. They feel like something is missing and want to look after a living being again. They are then allowed to select and name a new fish and are once again fully involved in the everyday fishkeeping activities.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Many children want their very own pet. Social worker Cornelia Dilly makes this dream come true for the children and young people who she supports within the scope of a day group at the youth welfare institution \u2018Haus am Kirschberg\u2019 (\u2018Am Kirschberg House\u2019) in the German state of Hesse. Children can choose their very own […]\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2079,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[163],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fish"],"yoast_head":"\n